A Simple Guide to Clear Triggers

You Are in the Driver's Seat

You have chosen your trusted supporters, which is a wonderful and important step. But just as important is deciding when their help should officially start. You are in control, and you get to decide when to hand over the keys, and only if you need to.

Setting a clear "starting signal" or "trigger" keeps you in charge of your life and your decisions.

What is a "Trigger"?

Think of a trigger as a starting pistol for a race. Your supporter's role doesn't begin until that signal is given. A trigger is a specific event that must happen before your supporter can start making decisions for you. Until that moment, they are simply on standby, ready to help only if and when you need them.

Why Triggers are So Important

• They Protect Your Independence: A clear trigger ensures that no one can step in too early. Your freedom and control are protected until help is truly needed.

• They Prevent Confusion: It makes things clear for everyone. Your family and supporters know exactly when their role begins, which avoids misunderstandings.

• They Give You Peace of Mind: Knowing you have this plan in place provides comfort. You've set the rules, and everyone knows what they are.

Examples of Clear Triggers

You get to decide what your trigger is. It should be something clear that can't be easily misunderstood. Here are some examples:

• A Doctor's Letter: This is a very common and clear trigger. For example: "My Power of Attorney can only start helping me after my doctor writes a letter saying I need support to manage my affairs."

• Two Doctors' Letters: For extra safety and certainty, you might ask for two doctors to agree in writing.

• Your Own Choice: You can decide that support starts only when you say so. For example: "My son can start helping me pay bills, but only after I have told him in writing that I want him to start."

Your Action: Write Down Your Trigger

The most important part of this process is to write your trigger down. Put this written instruction with your Legal and Financial Master List. This makes your wishes official.

You can write something like this:

"My supporter, [Supporter's Name], can only begin their role after this has happened: _________________________________________________________________."

Talk to Your Supporters About the Triggers

Once you have decided on your triggers, have a conversation with your supporters. Explain to them when and how their role would begin. This makes sure everyone is on the same page and understands your wishes perfectly. It’s another way to ensure your plan works just the way you want it to.

Disclaimer: This guide contains general information only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Always seek professional advice for your specific situation.